Let Go of the Pressure: Finding Peace in the Presence


Let Go of the Pressure: Finding Peace in God’s Presence

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How much weight are you carrying right now?

The expectations. The deadlines. The constant striving to “get it all right.”

We convince ourselves that if we just do more, achieve more, perfect more… then maybe we’ll finally feel at peace. But the truth? That pressure was never ours to carry.

God never asked you to hustle for His love. He never asked you to prove your worth or perfect your life before coming to Him. Yet so often, we keep piling on the burdens He already offered to lift.

I know what it’s like to live under the weight of “not enough.” And I also know the freedom of finally laying it down at His feet.

Surrender isn’t weakness—it’s choosing to release control and trust the One who’s been holding it all along.

3 Ways to Release What Was Never Yours

1. Name the weight you’re carrying.
Call it out. Perfectionism, comparison, people-pleasing—these are heavy burdens, but they are not your identity.

2. Hand it over to God.
Surrender means choosing to trust His plan over your own. It’s not about giving up—it’s about giving in to His better way.

3. Walk in freedom.
When you let go, you make room for peace, rest, and joy. Your worth isn’t tied to what you hold—it’s anchored in who holds you.

3 Points to Ponder

  • What expectations or pressures am I carrying that God never asked me to?
  • Where am I striving for control instead of surrendering to His plan?
  • How would my life feel lighter if I trusted Him with it all today?

Scripture for the Soul

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” – Matthew 11:28

Friend, you weren’t created to carry the weight of perfection. You were created to abide in Him. His rest is your inheritance. His peace is your promise. His strength meets you where your striving ends.

This Week on The Confident Woman Podcast

How to Let Go of the Pressure and Stop Carrying What Was Never Yours

If you’ve been running on empty, trying to do it all on your own, this episode is your reminder that you don’t have to carry it anymore.

Inside, you’ll hear:

  • How perfectionism chains us to pressure
  • The turning point of choosing surrender over control
  • What happens when you invite God into your struggles
  • How to release the weight you were never meant to carry
  • Practical encouragement for walking in freedom and rest

If you’ve been longing for a lighter way to live, this episode will meet you right where you are. Let it be your invitation to lay down the weight, take a deep breath, and step into the peace God has already promised. → Listen here

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You don’t have to prove your worth by hustling harder. You don’t have to carry burdens that were never yours to hold. You don’t have to wear perfection like armor in order to be loved. God already sees you, knows you, and loves you right where you are.

Take a breath, release what’s weighing you down, and remember this: you are already enough—not because of what you’ve done, but because of who He is.

That’s the freedom, the confidence, and the rest that’s available to you today.

XO,


P.S. If this spoke to you, forward it to a friend who’s been feeling the weight of striving. She might need this reminder today.


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